Happiness
was at the top of the agenda whenever Ernest “Ernie” Pace was around. He was known for two things: making those around him laugh and
singing. Not just any old song but one
song in particular: Dean Martin’s version of “Volare”. Originally written all in Italian it was
subsequently performed by the Gypsy Kings in their native Spanish for all but
the chorus which was left in Italian.
With the Dean Martin version all but the chorus – which again was left
in Italian – was performed in English.
It was this version that became synonymous with Ernie. It was “his” song, a song everyone who knew
and loved him associated with Ernie.
Also
associated with Ernie was his beloved Cessna plane. An accomplished Pilot with many flying hours
under his belt, Ernie loved to fly; it was his passion. His fascination with flying began in the 1940s
when, as a child, he would watch the planes fly over him on their way to war
but it was not until tragically his 12-year-old son died following being run
over by a bus and in the aftermath of such heartbreak his marriage broke down
that Ernie pursued his dream in a bid to retain his sanity and he learnt to fly. He continued to fly until early into the 21st
Century when due to his deteriorating eyesight he failed the medical but
continued to feed his passion for all things flying related by the reading of
books, magazines and watching films.
“Volare”
quite literally translates as “Fly”, with the Italian lyrics translating to “…and
I flew, I flew happily higher than the sun and even higher.” It is with these words that his widow, Carol
and son Anthony choose to remember him, having had them quite literally set in
stone as they adorn his headstone, standing proud in York Cemetery. The Italian lyrics are beautifully inscribed
in gold leaf around the bevel of the stone whilst the English translation is
etched into the body of the stone. His Cessna plane is reverse carved onto the top of the stone.
Singing
and laughing are not the only thoughts that spring to mind when remembering
Ernie. A technician by trade, having
started his career working on T.V.’s with Granada, Ernie was fascinated by
anything with movements. He collected watches,
clocks and anything else that had movements. At the time of his death, he had an estimated 500+ watches in his
collection and many of his relatives and friends now own one or sometimes two
of “Ernie’s timepieces”.
Ernie
choose to always wear two watches, one on each wrist. When asked why he wore two he would laugh and
say: “So I can check each is right!”. When asked why he collected so many he responded: “Because time is the
greatest gift you have.” This too is
recognised on his memorial which is inscribed with the words: “Time passes,
love remains.”
If
you choose to seek out Ernie’s headstone in York Cemetery, pause for a moment
and listen very carefully. You may be
surprised to hear and see a Cessna plane flying overhead. Unless it’s Friday 13th. He would never fly on Friday 13th
and that is the only day so far that anyone visiting his grave has not been
aware of the plane flying over. If you
see and hear it you can guarantee that it will make you smile – because that is
what Ernie, our Singing Pilot, does.
Absolutely beautiful blog in memory of my step dad Ernie, as he would say my non bio dad. Keep flying high xxx
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind comment Tracy - glad you like it :-)
DeleteHow lovely inspiring words what we all need at this tricky time got my watch on lets all put a watch on to remind us time is precious fly high brother in law ern x
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DeleteThank you for such a beautiful memorial to a wonderful man. Fly high my darling and keep singing xx Love and miss you so much xxx
ReplyDeleteThank you for your kind comments, so pleased you like it.
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